Your beauty shines in the day.. like the sunshine above.. just as well as it does at night.. like the moon set upon..
Don’t allow yourself to be nobody’s second best.. let him or her make you feel that all you’re good for is second place..
In other words don’t let nobody make you feel like there’s something wrong with you.. that your only use is when they have no one else.. Don’t think by allowing them to treat you less than.. You ask less than what .. less than the person God created you to be.. less than a person with feelings.. less than having your needs met.. but always meeting theirs.. less than being treated like the man and woman that God created you to be.. less than being shown respect for your body as well as your mind..
Too many of us settle for a less than life.. we allow another human beings.. with the same weakness as us .. subject to the same pain and shortcomings as we are.. make us feel less than..
If you don’t know if you’re less than.. let me share with you how to know..
- Does he/ she only call when they need something..
- Are you made to feel special..
- Do you see them only at night..
- Are you satisfied doing sex..
- Do they go weeks at a time without calling/ texting you..
- Do they say we are just friends but act like you their possession..
- Do they show any concern about you..
- Are you welcome at their place anytime..
- Do they show you respect..
- Do they take you out to dinner/ movie..
- Do they express any kind of love for you..
- Do you always do the giving but never receive anything back..
- Do they take your self esteem..
- Do they make you feel insecure..
- Do they let you know that they are looking for someone else.. that you are not who they desire to be in a relationship with..
- Do they let you know you are just a stress reliever.. ( a booty call)
I could go on and on with my list.. but what I’m trying to say is this.. nobody has the right to make you feel less than.. less than a man.. less than a woman.. you have the power as to how you allow anyone to treat you..
So everyday you must tell yourself.. I will not allow him/her to make me feel less than..Less than I know that I am.. key word you gotta know who you are.. in order to be treated the way you deserve.. you gotta know that there is nothing about you less than..
You gotta speak it.. today I am everything God created me to be.. and I never read where He created Adam less than.. but everything God created was good..
So you are good enough for anything.. and most definitely Anyone..